java连接mysql数据库
如题，我需要用Java来连接MySQL数据库，但是这个数据库实在别的服务器上，地址是：208.81.166.169 ，现在我需要连接该数据库，假定用户名是：hythzxSQL，密码：727799796，请问该如何写呢？下面是我写的片段，我是初学者，请多包涵。

Java code

try            {                //Class.forName("sun.jdbc.odbc.JdbcOdbcDriver");                Class.forName("com.mysql.jdbc.Driver");            }            catch(ClassNotFoundException e2){}            try            {                //Connection con = DriverManager.getConnection("jdbc:odbc:mail");                Connection con = DriverManager.getConnection("jdbc:mysql://208.81.166.169:3306/hythzxSQL","hythzxSQL","727799796");                Statement stmt = con.createStatement();                String sql = "SELECT user,password  FROM log";                ResultSet rs = stmt.executeQuery(sql);                while (rs.next())                {                name=rs.getString("user");                password=rs.getString("password");                boolean name_password1=tf1.getText().equals(name);                boolean name_password2=tf2.getText().equals(password);                if(name_password1==true &&name_password2==true)                {                    System.out.println("登录成功！");                                }                else                {                    System.out.println("用户名或密码错误！");                }                }                rs.close();                 stmt.close();                 con.close();                                 }            catch(Exception e3){}